Having said that, I must admit that I do take some joy in handyman/homeowner activities, as I've learned while becoming the token "handyman friend" for Andrea, who has been a proud homeowner for over a year now. In that time, I've learned how to install ceiling fans, paint, put up gutters, put up a hammock, hang blinds and curtains, and other such miscellaneous tasks. While I'm glad to help out with these things, I certainly wouldn't want to have to do this for a living, or continuously plan weekend projects for my own house. Again, ownership sounds like too much responsibility.

One thing that I am glad about is the fact that Andrea and I have managed to stay friends, in spite of our breakup a year ago, and plenty of turmoil in between. It certainly hasn't always been easy, but it’s hard to find good friends, and I'm glad that I've been able to keep her as a friend.

Maybe in a year or so I'll be ready to own a home. Right now, I'm glad to have the chance to try it out without any real commitment. :)

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